Sisters In Sobriety
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From Trauma to Triumph: Caroline Beidler on Healing and Sobriety
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From Trauma to Triumph: Caroline Beidler on Healing and Sobriety

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In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Kathleen and Sonia sit down with Caroline Beidler, MSW, to discuss the powerful intersection of trauma, addiction, and recovery. Caroline believes that transformation is possible and healing is a choice. Her own experience in addiction, mental health, and trauma recovery has inspired her to help other women find recovery in its many forms. Caroline is the founder of the global storytelling platform, Circle of Chairs, which reaches thousands of people weekly through her newsletter. In just three short years, she has built an international community of recovery supporters and organizes an annual global event on International Women’s Day, gathering thousands of advocates from around the world. With nearly two decades of leadership experience in social work and ministry, Caroline brings deep insight and compassion to the conversation about trauma and recovery.

In this episode, Kathleen and Caroline dive into key questions surrounding trauma and recovery: How can trauma shape addiction and mental health struggles? What does it take to break intergenerational cycles of trauma? Caroline shares her personal journey, offering insights into how trauma manifests in daily life and how healing is possible through vulnerability, community, and faith. They also discuss how women can navigate grief and loss while maintaining sobriety and building supportive, trauma-informed recovery systems.

Listeners will gain an understanding of trauma-informed recovery, the role of storytelling in processing trauma, and practical tools for addressing deep-rooted family dynamics. Caroline’s experience leading a global research initiative on family recovery adds a fresh perspective on the importance of healing trauma within family systems. By sharing her expertise, Caroline offers listeners tangible steps to embrace their own recovery journey, cultivate resilience, and transform pain into growth.

In the personal story segment, Caroline opens up about her own path through addiction and trauma recovery, sharing how these experiences shaped her life and calling. From battling shame and perfectionism to learning how to show up authentically in her recovery, her story is both relatable and inspiring. She also reflects on her work as a consultant, helping nonprofit organizations, governments, and communities build recovery-focused initiatives that foster long-lasting change.

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 Highlights:

  • [03:00] Caroline introduces herself and shares her background in social work and recovery advocacy.

  • [05:15] Discussion about Caroline’s book Downstairs Church and how it explores the intersection of faith, addiction, and trauma.

  • [07:32] Caroline explains the concept of “grit” in trauma recovery.

  • [09:45] The role of trauma in addiction and how it can lead to substance use as a coping mechanism.

  • [12:00] How trauma manifests in everyday life for those in recovery.

  • [14:20] Caroline shares her personal experience with intergenerational trauma.

  • [16:15] The importance of addressing trauma to maintain long-term sobriety.

  • [18:30] Caroline explains what radical vulnerability looks like in recovery.

  • [20:45] How faith plays a role in trauma healing and addiction recovery.

  • [23:10] Navigating grief and loss while maintaining sobriety.

  • [25:35] Caroline discusses her work with Bright Story Shine and its mission to share recovery stories.

  • [28:00] The importance of storytelling in processing trauma and addiction recovery.

  • [30:12] How perfectionism and self-sabotage impact sobriety and healing.

  • [32:25] Caroline shares insights on how to begin breaking cycles of family trauma.

  • [34:50] The role of community in trauma-informed recovery programs.

  • [37:05] Caroline reflects on how trauma and addiction affect relationships and family dynamics.

  • [39:20] How women can embrace authenticity and break free from societal expectations in recovery.

  • [41:45] Caroline talks about the International Women’s Day Global Recovery Event and the importance of women in recovery spaces.

  • [44:00] Practical tips for building resilience and addressing shame in recovery.

  • [46:25] Caroline’s final thoughts on finding hope and healing through trauma recovery.

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You know that sinking feeling when you wake up with a hangover and think: “I’m never doing this again”? We’ve all been there. But what happens when you follow through? Sonia Kahlon and Kathleen Killen can tell you, because they did it! They went from sisters-in-law, to Sisters in Sobriety.
In this podcast, Sonia and Kathleen invite you into their world, as they navigate the ups and downs of sobriety, explore stories of personal growth and share their journey of wellness and recovery.
Get ready for some real, honest conversations about sobriety, addiction, and everything in between. Episodes will cover topics such as: reaching emotional sobriety, how to make the decision to get sober, adopting a more mindful lifestyle, socializing without alcohol, and much more.
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Kathleen Killen is a registered psychotherapist (qualifying) and certified coach based in Ontario, Canada. Her practice is centered on relational therapy and she specializes in couples and working with individuals who are navigating their personal relationships.
Having been through many life transitions herself, Kathleen has made it her mission to help others find the support and communication they need in their closest relationships. To find out more about Kathleen’s work, check out her website.
Sonia Kahlon is a recovery coach and former addict. She grappled with high-functioning alcohol use disorder throughout her life, before getting sober in 2016. Sonia is now the founder of EverBlume, a digital tool that offers a unique approach to alcohol recovery support.
Over the last five years, she has appeared on successful sobriety platforms, such as the Story Exchange, the Sobriety Diaries podcast and the Sober Curator, to tell her story of empowerment and addiction recovery, discuss health and midlife sobriety, and share how she is thriving without alcohol.
Her online platform EverBlume launched in February 2023, and was featured in Recovery Today Magazine and deemed an ‘essential sobriety resource’ by the FemTech Insider.
The company champions self-improvement and mindful sobriety, with support groups designed by and for women struggling with alcohol.
So how can EverBlume help you meet your sober community? By offering deeply personalized support. Members get matched based on their profiles and life experiences, and take part in small group sessions (max. 16 people). In your support group, you will meet like-minded women, discuss your experiences, and gain confidence, knowing you can rely on your peers in times of need.
Whether you identify as a binge drinker, someone who developed a habit during the Covid-19 pandemic, a high-functioning alcoholic, or an anxious person using alcohol to self-soothe… There is a support group for you!
Current EverBlume members have praised the company’s unique approach to alcohol detox. “No one is judging me for not being sure I want to be sober for the rest of my life” ; “I felt so heard and understood and today I woke up feeling empowered to make the change in my life”.
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