Sisters In Sobriety
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Suicide Prevention Month: My Battle with Anxiety, Depression, and Alcohol
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Suicide Prevention Month: My Battle with Anxiety, Depression, and Alcohol

In this heartfelt and powerful episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia opens up about her personal battle with anxiety, depression, and how quitting drinking ultimately saved her life. As we recognize September as Suicide Prevention Month, Sonia’s story will resonate with anyone who has struggled in silence. Her message is one of hope, courage, and the vital importance of mental health support. Whether you're on your own sobriety journey or supporting someone else, this episode has something for you.

We dive deep into questions like: What role does alcohol play in our mental health? How can we recognize the signs of burnout and anxiety even when life appears “perfect” on the outside? How do we begin to make changes when we feel stuck? This episode brings valuable insights and answers to these important topics.

Sonia talks about tools for overcoming cravings, understanding the connection between alcohol and mental health, and learning to find joy in life again. Sonia explains how her panic attacks, depression, and suicidal thoughts shifted with medication and quitting alcohol, offering educational takeaways for anyone questioning their relationship with drinking. 

In this deeply personal episode, Sonia shares the highs and lows of her journey, from reaching her breaking point to finding light and strength in sobriety. Her candid storytelling is both raw and inspiring, showing us that recovery is possible, even when it feels out of reach. Don't miss this intimate glimpse into her life, which could be just the encouragement you need to take the next step in your own journey.

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Highlights:

  • [00:00:00] Sonia introduces the episode and discusses the significance of Suicide Prevention Month.

  • [00:01:00] Sonia shares her personal story of struggle, despite outward success.

  • [00:02:32] Describing how drinking and work became intertwined in her life.

  • [00:03:00] A detailed description of Sonia's anxiety and panic attacks.

  • [00:03:43] Sonia discusses the lack of support from her now ex-husband.

  • [00:04:27] The emotional toll of chronic hangovers and feeling hopeless.

  • [00:04:53] The first steps Sonia took toward getting help for depression and suicidal thoughts.

  • [00:05:16] Sonia reflects on her journey to quit drinking and the challenges of sobriety.

  • [00:05:39] How quitting alcohol significantly impacted her mental health.

  • [00:06:09] Sonia talks about coping with early sobriety and alcohol cravings.

  • [00:06:37] The small actions that helped Sonia find joy again.

  • [00:07:00] Sonia explains how her life transformed after quitting drinking.

  • [00:08:10] Reflecting on the importance of self-compassion in recovery.

  • [00:08:45] The role of community and support in her healing journey.

  • [00:09:15] Sonia’s advice on getting through the rough days without alcohol.

  • [00:09:40] Understanding the connection between alcohol and depression.

  • [00:10:12] The importance of mental health awareness in sobriety.

  • [00:10:45] How sobriety helped Sonia reconnect with herself and others.

  • [00:11:20] Encouraging words for listeners who are feeling stuck or hopeless.

  • [00:12:00] The impact of small, sustainable changes on long-term recovery.

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Discussion about this podcast

Sisters In Sobriety
Sisters In Sobriety
You know that sinking feeling when you wake up with a hangover and think: “I’m never doing this again”? We’ve all been there. But what happens when you follow through? Sonia Kahlon and Kathleen Killen can tell you, because they did it! They went from sisters-in-law, to Sisters in Sobriety.
In this podcast, Sonia and Kathleen invite you into their world, as they navigate the ups and downs of sobriety, explore stories of personal growth and share their journey of wellness and recovery.
Get ready for some real, honest conversations about sobriety, addiction, and everything in between. Episodes will cover topics such as: reaching emotional sobriety, how to make the decision to get sober, adopting a more mindful lifestyle, socializing without alcohol, and much more.
Whether you’re sober-curious, seeking inspiration and self-care through sobriety, or embracing the alcohol-free lifestyle already… Tune in for a weekly dose of vulnerability, mutual support and much needed comic relief. Together, let’s celebrate the transformative power of sisterhood in substance recovery!
Kathleen Killen is a registered psychotherapist (qualifying) and certified coach based in Ontario, Canada. Her practice is centered on relational therapy and she specializes in couples and working with individuals who are navigating their personal relationships.
Having been through many life transitions herself, Kathleen has made it her mission to help others find the support and communication they need in their closest relationships. To find out more about Kathleen’s work, check out her website.
Sonia Kahlon is a recovery coach and former addict. She grappled with high-functioning alcohol use disorder throughout her life, before getting sober in 2016. Sonia is now the founder of EverBlume, a digital tool that offers a unique approach to alcohol recovery support.
Over the last five years, she has appeared on successful sobriety platforms, such as the Story Exchange, the Sobriety Diaries podcast and the Sober Curator, to tell her story of empowerment and addiction recovery, discuss health and midlife sobriety, and share how she is thriving without alcohol.
Her online platform EverBlume launched in February 2023, and was featured in Recovery Today Magazine and deemed an ‘essential sobriety resource’ by the FemTech Insider.
The company champions self-improvement and mindful sobriety, with support groups designed by and for women struggling with alcohol.
So how can EverBlume help you meet your sober community? By offering deeply personalized support. Members get matched based on their profiles and life experiences, and take part in small group sessions (max. 16 people). In your support group, you will meet like-minded women, discuss your experiences, and gain confidence, knowing you can rely on your peers in times of need.
Whether you identify as a binge drinker, someone who developed a habit during the Covid-19 pandemic, a high-functioning alcoholic, or an anxious person using alcohol to self-soothe… There is a support group for you!
Current EverBlume members have praised the company’s unique approach to alcohol detox. “No one is judging me for not being sure I want to be sober for the rest of my life” ; “I felt so heard and understood and today I woke up feeling empowered to make the change in my life”.
Feeling inspired? Learn more about the EverBlume sobriety community at joineverblume.com, or simply listen to Sisters In Sobriety.
Your sobriety success story starts today, with Kathleen and Sonia. Just press play!